The Mind of My Man

Due to the fact that nothing oddly out of the ordinary happened to me this week (shocking I know), I decided to try something a little different for this entry. I have been getting so many emails asking about Shai and his thoughts on the pregnancy and how he’s handling it. All these questions made me realize, this pregnancy isn’t only about me, even though I would like to think it is. He too is going though feelings, emotions, and fears and I thought it would be fun to pick his brain about my pregnancy, life, love and us.

Let begin the interview J

TS: Did you always see yourself as a father or was this something that happened when you met your oh so beautiful wife?

SS: I always envisioned having kids at some point, but I never realized that "some point" was going to be now. Definitely couldn't imagine having kids one with anyone else.

TS: How did you feel when I was going through everything to try get pregnant?

SS: STRESSED! I knew you wanted to get pregnant so badly but knowing the kind of person you are, I knew that you were stressing yourself over something that would eventually happen naturally…Which it did, because I’m always right! It was very challenging to keep you calm and more importantly keep your mind off of it. I guess you you just needed some sun and relaxation in Turks to make it happen.

TS: How did you really feel when the test came back positive?

SS: SCARED SHITLESS

TS: What’s your favorite part of the pregnancy?

SS: Watching your growing belly grow every week and knowing were getting closer and closer to becoming parents

TS: What’s your least favorite part of it?

SS: That you’re not having any exciting cravings. I always envisioned that I would have to run out at 4am to get you pickles and ice cream from across the city, but you’re boring me in that department.

TS: What are your biggest fears about being a dad?

SS: Having a kid that doesn't appreciate all the love and opportunities we will provide him / her with.

TS: What kind of parents do you think we will be?

SS: Very cool parents. I plan to be strict when need be but want a kid that will come to us for everything

TS: Do you find me more attractive or less attractive preg- BE HONEST!

SS: Is this a trick question???? I find you to be a very beautiful pregnant woman and truly think you are glowing and all but I clearly think every girl is more attractive not pregnant.

(You should all know that I am both hysterical laughing and hysterical crying at the same time from his answer- My husband clearly prefers me without a baby bump!)

TS: Do you have a preference on the baby’s gender?

SS: If it comes out with my size head, then it better be a boy! But otherwise, I really don’t. I obviously just want a healthy baby

And now for some questions that all girls want to know but may not have a guy to ask…

TS: What’s the first thing you notice about a girl?

SS: First is their face because in all honesty, if they’re not pretty I wont be looking any further. Next comes the boobies and butt

TS: Ass or tits man?

SS: I don’t discriminate

TS: What do guys really think if a girl bones him the first night?

SS: Not a keeper…Keeps those legs crossed ladies if you’re looking for a long-term play

TS: Are there any rules about contacting a guy after a date?

SS: If the guy took you out for a dinner, which I would never do on a first date, then at least text him to thank him. However, if you have no interest..don’t text at all. Keep it simple.

TS: What do guys look for in a wifey?

SS: That’s a very hard question to answer for the general public as I’ve seen a lot of smart people make some REALLY bad choices. But speaking for myself, I looked for someone who could understand me, someone I love spending time with and someone that would be a great mother to my kids…and yes, I have found that in you.

Our first date at Philippe- March 17, 2007

Our wedding Skylight Soho- August 26 2010